Indecorum.

'The problem is that people outside of the community always want to tell us what we should and should not accept and which rules we should and should not play by.'

This is true, and I love how everyone blames everything on the black man when they've been misguided by misinformation that they've been fed through hearsay and subsequently don't even know what the situation was between these two people in the first place. I, as a non-omnipresent being, was not there to witness the full story between Chris Brown and Rihanna unfold (I don't even listen to their music whatsoever) - so therefore, it's not my place to cast judgement on anybody when it's impossible to even obtain all of the unbiased facts without a feminist, politically correct, or slanted spin placed on it.

Everybody's on their high-horse until they're put in the situation to do what they have to do when they're deeply sliced in the head with a stiletto heel or allegedley even purposefully given herpes. Now, I'm not defending Chris Brown - so don't accuse me of it - but at the same time, I'm not going to cast detrimental stones on another person or their character, yourself included, based on something that:

1) Doesn't involve me in any way, shape, or form.

or

2) Something that I don't even have all the details about in the first place.

That's not right. I mean, put yourself in the accused person's shoes where the rest of the world has hypothetically deemed you a sadist or a pedophile or a misanthrope without them even knowing the full story behind what they're hollowly accussing you of to begin with - just like what happened to Ned Stark of "Game of Thrones" or Charlie Crews of "Life". Yes, those are fictional characters in fictional settings but the messages and morals of those stories are just as real and substancial in our world as they are in their own on the page or on the screen. And in the behind-the-scenes world of superstardom, that's all anything ever really is to us in the the outside realm behind the wall-barrier of publicity stunts, P.R. spins, and abridged tales: (Often unsubstanciated) Stories.